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How to Nail Your Groom Speech: A Guide to Saying All the Right Things on Your Wedding day!

Oliver Reeve



Okay, future grooms! You've got the suit, the ring, and the nerves. Now it's time to tackle that speech. On top of all the thanks you's (those are listed at the end), you want to make sure you say at least one minute's worth of nice things about your stunning wife without turning into a blubbering mess. Lucky for you, I've seen more weddings than I've had hot dinners, and I've got the inside scoop on how to make your speech a hit.


👰‍♀️ Start with the Obvious: She Looks Gorgeous

First things first, you’ve got to acknowledge how incredible your wife looks. Seriously, don’t skip this. You could say something like, "I mean, just look at her, isn't she the most beautiful woman in the world?" This not only gets you brownie points but also sets a warm, fuzzy tone for your speech. Plus, it's a great way to ease into the more emotional stuff without diving straight into the deep end.

📖 Share a Cute (But Not Embarrassing) Story

Next up, charm the pants off your audience with a sweet story from your early dating days. Think of a moment that really encapsulated your connection, like that time you both got caught in the rain and ended up laughing uncontrollably. Keep it light and heartwarming—no one needs to hear about your first fight or anything too personal. And definitely leave out how you met online. Everyone assumes that nowadays, and Tinder doesn’t need free advertising! go beyond that to real life interactions.

💘 Lay on the Love

Now, onto the gushy part. Talk about what makes you love her unconditionally. Maybe it’s her laugh, her kindness, or the way she always knows how to make you smile. Say something like, "Her kindness and generosity amaze me every day." Make sure these are genuine compliments. This is your chance to show everyone why she’s the one for you.

🫶 Make Some Sweet Promises

Time to get serious with some promises. These should be heartfelt, like promising to always support her, to make her laugh, or to be her rock through thick and thin. Say something along the lines of, "I promise to always be there for you, to support your dreams, and to make you laugh even when life gets tough." Keep it real and from the heart—she’ll love you even more for it.

💭 Dream About the Future

Wrap it up with a look ahead at your future together. Talk about how excited you are for all the adventures, the quiet moments, and everything in between. You might say, "I can't wait to see what the future holds for us, from traveling the world to cozy nights in." This leaves everyone with a warm and fuzzy feeling and rounds off your speech nicely.



Practical Tips for the Big Day

Now, let’s talk logistics. Avoid using your phone for your speech. Trust me, nothing kills the vibe like your phone dying mid-speech or an ill-timed notification popping up. Instead, use cue cards. They’re sturdy, easy to handle, and you won’t lose your place. Write clearly and maybe use some highlighter pens to mark each section so you can navigate through your speech like a pro.


Aim for a speech that’s around 5-10 minutes long. This keeps everyone engaged and ensures you don’t drone on. The best speeches are a mix of heartfelt sentiments and a touch of humor—nothing crude or embarrassing, just enough to make people smile.


Remember to thank everyone appropriately. The person before your speech (often Father of the bride),Bridesmaids, helpers, your new family, your friends, your own family, your bride and finally your best man, these all and sometimes more, deserve a shout-out. Balance these out so no one feels left out, and you’ll end up with a well-rounded, memorable speech.


So there you have it, guys! With these tips, you’ll deliver a groom speech that’s not only memorable but also heartfelt and genuine. Speak from the heart, keep it light, and you'll absolutely smash it. Good luck!


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